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freedom of assuming the best
Dear Lucille, People are generally good. Even when ugliness rears its head in one's behavior, it is likely a product of heartache and...
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grief: similarly different
Dear Lucille, Grief cannot speak to any two people in the same exact way. Similarities are inevitable--but its capacities are vast. One...
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Dear Boys, she'll find it
Dear Boys, I have been thinking about a few things you inherited from me: 1. Poofy hair: It just sticks up no matter what you do. It...
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violence
Dear Lucille, Limit the unnecessary violence you intake. The world has it in spades, and it is easy to ingest it with little thought. Its...
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the liberating power of forgiveness
Dear Lucille, Forgiveness may be the single most important and distinguishing attribute of someone who is close to Heaven. It is a trait...
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Your place as a woman
Dear Lucille, I think it’s time you learned your place. We live in a world that clamors for the attention of little girls like you....
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alone not loneliness
Dear Lucille, At times, people feel the need to be alone. You will experience this feeling. Being alone can allow our minds to slow down...
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presence
Dear Lucille, It occurs to me that we only have the present. Yesterday was made up of present moments. Tomorrow is a word that simply...
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stress advice
Dear Lucille, Should you find yourself stressed, here's a little exercise I've found helpful: First, take a piece of paper and write for...
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